Elyse Jewel
Elyse Jewel’s latest single “Tbh Idk” is an anthem for anyone feeling hurt by someone we like. It’s inspiring, catchy and it’s something many people would be able to relate.
Elyse Jewel is an astounding pop singer/songwriter who writes empowering songs about mental health and self-love. We definitely need more artists like her. Thank you so much Elyse for the chat and thank you for what you do.
“Tbh Idk” is out now :)
Introduce yourself - what's your story?
Ever since I can remember I have wanted to be involved in music. When I was very young my dad introduced me to the likes of Eric Clapton and The Beatles, and my aunt showed me musical theater and show tunes. This all heavily influenced my evergrowing love for music. I used to put on shows for my family and make music videos with my friends until I was granted the opportunity to perform in front of real public crowds and make music videos for my own songs. Over time I found that songwriting and singing is an outlet that’s helped me throughout my personal mental health journey. With the knowledge that mental illness is becoming an epidemic, I have devoted my platform to destigmatizing open conversations about it whilst showing the story of self-love in my songs.
"TBH IDK" is your new single - what's the inspiration behind this song?
I wrote this song at a time when I needed to escape from the reality that was getting played by someone I really liked. He led me on for months just to say “tbh idk” over text when I asked him what our relationship was to him. It was definitely disappointing, to say the least; however, I took what he said and made a song I hope everyone can relate to.
Could you describe the songwriting/production process for this song? When did you start working on it? Who helped you create it?
When I walked in the studio, I didn’t exactly know what I wanted to write about, but I knew that it had to be something to do with the guy that I was constantly thinking about. I remember telling my friends, Kara Connely and Jorge Rios, the story of how we ended things and they both said, “We have to call the song TBH IDK,” and that’s how it came into production. I recorded the song with my producer, Jack Ventigola, who helped make it a reality.
What did you feel when writing this song?
Before writing, I was so scared to admit that I was genuinely hurt by him, but as we came to write “Tbh Idk,” I realized how special I am as an individual. I was feeling so lost and allowed myself to be manipulated into feeling inferior when in reality, I was not the problem nor was it my fault for being played. It was definitely an eye-opening and therapeutic experience.
What's your favorite thing about "TBH IDK"?
I absolutely love how specific it is. I think it is so funny how I quoted him in the song and gave specific examples of what the relationship was like. I hope he hears it and knows that I have grown so much because of the experience.
What can you tell us about the artwork?
When concepting the cover art, I wanted it to make it something simple, but creative and fun. I took the polaroid outside of a shopping center and thought that it would be so cute to put it on notebook paper, almost creating a diary feel since this song is very much a confessional.
What do you want people to feel when listening to your music?
I want people to be able to feel connected and realize that I may have gone through the same or a similar situation that they have. I believe that I shed some advice within my songs through the lessons I’ve learned and prove to people that they are worthy of all they want in life.
What can you tell us about your upcoming album?
Throughout the EP I tell a conceptual story of what my relationship with this guy was like and how it affected me. It shows the ups and downs of a true high school romance that many people can relate to. Oh, and here’s a fun fact: It’s about the same guy “tbh idk” is about ;)
As an artist, what is the hardest part? And what is the best part?
Social media has been something I have struggled with. It can become draining and at times feels difficult to not care about the number of comments or likes. I think the media leaves lots of room for overthinking and certain mental health problems to take play; however, as soon as I reply to an uplifting comment or have a deep conversation with a fan, I remember how amazing it is to have the different platforms. I absolutely love connecting with people and sharing my stories in hopes that at least one person is moved. There is something special about genuinely connecting and making a positive impact in someone’s life.
What are your thoughts on today's music industry? If you could change one thing, what would it be?
I believe that making more opportunities for all people would make this industry a much more accepting place. It is hard to grow as an artist and an individual, and it’s even harder constantly being told what to wear, how to look, or what to say. If the world was more accepting and open to unique looks and sounds, more people would have a chance to share their voices through music.
What biggest lessons have you learned since the beginning of your career?
I learned to trust myself. Being a young girl in a very competitive industry, it’s intimidating and scary to voice any concerns. I have learned, however, that I am my own person and that my voice matters. My career is something nobody else should be or try to be in charge of and my opinion is valid.
What message do you want to give to anyone struggling with their mental health?
You are not alone. I know that it’s something that many say and sounds seemingly empty, but it is true. So many people struggle and it is okay to not be okay. Struggling is not embarrassing and it is not only you. I understand how hard times can get, but I promise there is somebody in your life who can relate and will give you comfort or advice.
In your opinion, what would make the world a better place?
More empathy within everyone would significantly help. Everyone is so connected to their phones or computers that they don’t realize what’s right in front of them. It is hard to be kind to yourself when all you see is the negative comments or false information constantly being spread by individuals who are internally hurting. So many fail to empathize with themselves and others. Unfortunately that is making society a more insensitive place.
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